I’m fully aware that bringing up this topic might attract some criticism, but I think it’s important to discuss and clarify my thoughts on it. There’s a lot of talk about the concept of men having “needs” for sex. In fact, I’ve often discussed mutual needs and happiness myself.
However, when we refer to something as a “need,” it’s essential to understand what that really means. Basic human needs include water, food, and air—without these essentials, we cannot survive.
On the other hand, while sex and intimacy are deeply significant for many people emotionally and physically, they are not necessary for individual survival in the same way water or food is. No one has died from a lack of sexual activity.
This brings us to question how we perceive and prioritize our desires within relationships. Is labeling sex as a need putting unnecessary pressure on our partners and ourselves? Or is it a valid expressoin of something crucial for the health of our relationships?
Feel free to share your thoughts by discussing whether you think sex should be considered a fundamental human need in terms of relationship dynamics.